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Pen Pushers Suck!


While our paid congressman continue their tantrum and continued effort to eliminate health care for millions patieand deny deny so many millions more because of pre-existing conditions, fortunately I currently do not have that problem with my insurance…yet.  There is one issue about the Affordable Care Act not addressed and is just as important as accepting pre-existing conditions.

While in the waiting room with my dad who was scheduled to get his third chemo treatment, there was a woman at the receptionist window wondering where her father was.  He had been dropped off by her to receive an injection to helhomies body recover his red blood cell counts which were effected by his treatments.

There was one problem.  His blood level was 10.1 and the insurance would only cover the injection if the count was under 10.  Okay, the first ridiculous fact is he was being denied the coverage for .2 of his count.  The second problem is that his count would undoubtedly drop more over the next days anyway because that is what the chemo would do and he would need the injection anyway.

But the pen pusher accomplished what they wanted, denied covering the injection. Forget what the doctor who actually saw the patient wanted done.  The pen pusher at the insurance company saved the company’s finances by taking care of this cheater abusing the health care industry.

The patient refused to sign the waiver as he could not afford the injection out of pocket.  He left the hospital leaving his daughter and nuts nurses wondering where he got to.  The daughter was his transportation and her father was missing.

While they searched for the patient, another call came through to the hospital.  The evil sand heartless ogres at the insurance company had changed their minds after the doctor stopped talking to or treating other patients just to argue and defend what he had ordered by his observations of the patient.  But of course the pen pushers were only worried about preventing this cheat with getting away with the serious of meeting the needs of his care.

They located the man in the lobby of the hospital.  While his daughter was relieved as I am sure was the hospital, this situation should never have happened in the first place.  Unfortunately, it is all too common a practice.  So go ahead congress, continue to fold your arms and hold your breath.  People are dying or suffering needlessly because we treat our patients with $$$ instead of medicines.  And jig you don’t have the $$$ you don’t get the medicines.

Shame on you congress.  But what do you care?  You are still getting paid and still have your excellent health care coverage that does not hold you to the standards this cancer patient faced.  Then again, you were elected by the People to represent the People not special interests.  And as a voter, that makes me your employer.  And just as I do not have the luxury of telling my boss I am not going to work because I do not like something, and still want to be paid because I would be accused of insubordination and fired… I have one thing to say.  GET BACK TO WORK!!  The ACA is not perfect, but it has to start somewhere.  There is clearly more work to be done to prevent the greedy pen pushers from making these horrible decisions denying the care that is needed.

The Homestretch


As a kid, I was very shy, so clearly not very popular.  I did not bother running or campaigning for any elected position like student government.  It is not because I was not interested in a leadership role, just not in the organized hierarchy position.    It was during my battle with Hodgkin’s Lymphoma that I soon realized what my personal definition of leadership would be, by setting example.

When I came to my current employment, my job would require me to join my first, last, and only union job.  Do not misunderstand me, I appreciate everything that my union has negotiated for me, such as group health and life insurance which prior to the Affordable Care Act, I would not qualify for the insurance because of prior conditions.

Being a fighter by nature, a defender for those unable to fend for themselves, I made a decision to run for shop steward in my department.  A shop steward is an elected co-worker, generally quite knowledgeable with the contract we work under, and various other workers rights laws.  Because personalities sometimes conflict, the shop steward also needs to be willing to represent a co-worker regardless of any ill feelings.  In my fourteen years in my current department, I ran thirteen times, and lost all thirteen.  I was the “Susan Lucci” of my department.

In 2009, I made a decision that in spite of not being able to earn forty to fifty votes needed to be a shop steward in my department, I was going to take a shot at campaigning for school board in the school district I live.  (That story is posted earlier this year).  The fact that I would need 100 times the votes to earn a school board position compared to the perennial losses that I suffered at work, I felt I could achieve victory.

I fell short in the election of 2011, as did two of my running mates.  But two other of my running mates did earn seats onto the school board.  And it was their encouragement that convinced me to take another run, this time for 2013.  I lost that election in 2011 by 196 votes.  Only 11,000 voted of the potential 50,000 voters.  But I recorded over 9000 votes.  I personally know maybe a couple dozen people locally, and definitely know less than one hundred people, period.

Besides the personality quirk that I have of not wanting to quit or concede, there is a rush that I get, and I am sure that others get during campaign season.  The schedule is exhausting, as now that we are in October, I am out of my house nearly seven days a week, and usually all weekend long attending fundraisers, public events, and going door to door, meeting potential voters.  There is a tremendous feeling I get, when I am responded to in a positive way.  I am congratulated for stepping up.  I am looked to for hope and help for those struggling.  I am being counted on to make things better.

During my first campaign, there are many memories that stand out in my mind.  And this campaign is no different.  This has been a marathon weekend for me.  So my movements are a bit robotic or automatic.  I was not prepared for one open door that I had today.  I will respect her privacy by not revealing her name.  But after dealing with a late heatwave in the middle of October, today was not one of my fun days, until 5:30 this evening.

I was greeted by a jester.  Well, it was actually a mother who was playing with her children who were also in costume, but the mother was wearing a jester’s outfit.  I could not help but chuckle as she proceeded to explain the circumstances to me, but it did not matter.  She broke the monotony that I had been feeling today.  I explained the platforms that myself and my running mates were campaigning on.  And then she told me what I wanted to hear, that she would support the four of us with her votes.  You see, besides being an outstanding mother to her children, she was also a teacher.  Just one of the many who for years has had to listen to constant unjustified criticisms and fabrications about an occupation that we all rely on for the sake of our futures.

It means a lot to be relied and counted on.  Today is just one of many that I will look back upon and remember vividly.  I hope someday that I get the chance to see that teacher again, only under the circumstances of her congratulating me on a  victory.  And all I ask for, is to be able to look at her and know, that she feels hope again.  Hope that the district’s leadership will be the one to set the example of restoring respect to the teaching profession.

I have never won a campaign.  I won my first election this year, finally of the position of shop steward.  I have not let my co-workers down.  I hope this is a sign of things to come next month.

Ichiro Suzuki, Pete Rose, Ty Cobb, and Paul Edelman


Ichiro Suzuki, Pete Rose, Ty Cobb, and Paul Edelman.  We all share something in common with each other.  Alright, we have to eliminate the obvious using the method used on standardized tests… which answer does not fit?  Paul Edelman.  The other three names are/were professional baseball players who hit for over 4000 career base hits.  Each time, the impossible became possible.  Ty Cobb hit for 4000 career hits, a record never thought to be broken.  Then Pete Rose achieved that mark, followed by Suzuki.

In 2012, there were eleven quarterbacks who threw for over 4000 yards breaking a record 10 quarterbacks in one season.  Future Hall Of Famers, Drew Brees, Tony Romo, Tom Brady, Peyton Manning and Aaron Rodgers just to name a few.

The late, great Wilt Chamberlain is the only pro basketball player to ever score 4000 points in one season.  The season being the years 1961-1962.

Sorry hockey fans… and I am disappointed as well there are no 4000 goals or points scored.  Goalie Devan Dubnyk of the Edmonton Oilers has stopped over 4000 shots as have Roberto Luongo, Henrik Lundqvist, and bizarre former Flyers goalie Ilya Bryzgalov.  I looked for any hockey player who might have racked up 4000 penalty minutes and the closest I could come was a player by the name of Tiger Williams (Toronto Mapleleafs) who retired just short of 4000 with 3966 minutes.

There has been no physical demand on my part to reach 4000 views on Paul’s Heart, just the will to put my thoughts down into written form.  I would like to think that there are more in my household who would be excited for me, especially my oldest daughter who is not really fond of reading.  You would think she would see that so many have read what her father has written and have that motivate her, but to my disappointment, nope.  Nonetheless, for the guy who’s college English professor once wrote while grading one of my papers that I “don’t have the intelligence to get past a comic strip page”, I think I can, and have done so.

I now set my sights on a new goal, 5000 views.  Thank you so much for encouraging me with your comments and support.  Darlene, thank you for suggesting this be my outlet for my thoughts in pursuit of that book I want to write.  And to everyone, I have over 100 more stories already started, not including the ideas that pop in my head daily.

As usual, I constantly run into new experiences that I want to share with you, in hopes that somehow, you will see, you are not alone.

Thank you everyone for reading Paul’s Heart.

 

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