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The Hidden Danger Of Sepsis


The following post is quite graphic and intense.  Reader discretion is advised, but so very important to know about.

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Somewhere in my distant past, I heard the word “septic shock” at least once.  I never really knew anything about it, other than it was something quite serious.  If I recall, it ended with a person dying.  But back then, I had no concerns about what exactly it was.

In 2012, that changed for me, in a near fatal way.  There was nothing really unusual about the night before, when I got ready for sleep.  It was a Sunday night, because it was the day of my oldest daughter’s birthday.  It was a full weekend of activity between work and the party.  By the end of the night, I was worn out.  That was pretty much it.  Around 11pm, I brushed my teeth, and crawled in to bed, to try to get as much sleep as I could before starting the new work week.

At around 3am, I abruptly sat up, in horror, and projectile vomited uncontrollably for nearly a minute as I attempted, quite miserably to get to the toilet in our master bathroom.  No sooner had the vomiting stopped, immense pain hit me hard and fast.  And when I say pain, it was worse than both the surgery from my heart bypass and my kidney stone combined.  The pain was so bad, I passed out.

The next thing that I remember, I was laying on a gurney, with two paramedics (I may have been hallucinating because I could have sworn one of them was my former brother in law from a former marriage), and two police officers in my house.  I had come to just briefly, and recall telling my now former spouse, “make sure the paramedics have my emergency cards from my wallet.”

The cards I was referring to, supplied information about the unique circumstances with my body, since it had been discovered that over the decades since my cancer treatment, had caused many issues that could complicate any kind of treatment for what was happening to me.

I was rolled out of my bedroom, and I saw my then 9 year old and 7 year old daughters watching me get rolled down the stairs and put into an ambulance.  Sadly, this is not the first time that they had witnessed an emergency situation with me, nor would it be the last.

I have no recollection of the next many hours.  Whether I was sedated, or just out cold, I have no idea, nor any memory.  When I did wake up though, I was given the news.  I had pneumonia.

Immediately I questioned how that could be.  I was not coughing prior to this episode.  I was not sick.  But then the explanation went further, and I heard the words, “you are septic.”

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I was in the stage somewhere between severe sepsis and septic shock.  In any case, my life literally depending on timing.  I person diagnosed with sepsis, can die within 24 hours if not treated aggressively enough.  It is believed that I was not dealing with the common pneumonia that most people are familiar with, but rather a “mechanically” related pneumonia called “aspiration pneumonia.”  I will try to keep it simple as far as the description, but complications from the radiation therapy that I had decades ago, caused a condition with my esophagus.  This can possibly, and did this particular instance, cause me to inhale bacteria from decaying food that had not gone done my esophagus.  This led to my sepsis.

Once sepsis is diagnosed, as I said, you literally have hours to get it under control, with extreme amounts of IV antibiotics.  It is important to keep the infection, the sepsis from reaching the heart.  Hence, death.  With me being without a spleen, this was even more critical.  Because without a spleen, my body cannot make the antibodies, or make them quick enough, and in a large enough supply to fight whatever infection I am dealing with.

Long story short, I did eventually recover.  But I was startled from the news that I was given, which was followed up by one of the most stern lectures I had ever been given about my post cancer care.

There is a blood level that is a sure give-away that you are dealing with sepsis, called “lactic acid”.  This was information provided to me from a friend who is also a paramedic who had told me just how often, sepsis goes undiagnosed in hospitals resulting in patients deaths.  The level for sepsis diagnosis of lactic acid is greater than 4.  My level was nearly double.  And the tongue lashing I got, was for not getting to the hospital sooner.  I could not believe it, because I had not idea, was not symptomatic at all until I woke up at 3am.  I was told I was septic for more than 24 hours already.  This was too close of a call.

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Again, I had no idea I was septic, and I nearly died from it.  And I have learned a lot about this, as I would deal with it again, nine months later with another episode of pneumonia.  But further research that I feel is important enough to share with you right now.

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I recently learned of a friend whose sister just passed away.  She had pneumonia, was being treated for it, fell in the hospital, and though cured of the pneumonia, evidently developed some sort of infection, and died.  It turned out she had broken her hip, but the infection was too great to fight it with antibiotics.  And I know of at least two others right now who are dealing with recurring sepsis.

This is no joke.  Lactic acid should be a mandatory blood test, especially if you are in a hospital.

A friend recently shared a blog about 10 things necessary to know about sepsis, from assessment, to transport, to treatment.  I am including the link on this page.  I know this post was quite graphic, but if you can make yourself aware of the hidden dangers of sepsis, if you are ever faced with the possibility of sepsis, you will become your greatest advocate for yourself, or for your loved ones.

http://www.ems1.com/mobile-healthcare/articles/2184293-Sepsis-10-things-you-need-to-know-to-save-lives

 

What The Ears Don’t See


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I have always been one to believe in the importance of face to face communication.  Back before the internet (yes, I am exposing my age as a geezer), I would be most often be irritated with having a simple telephone conversation.  I always felt that the person on the other end of the phone line (for those of you have no knowledge of communications before wireless – these were cables that ran from house to house with big poles spaced about 200 feet apart from each other, carrying spoken noise from one talking receptacle to another), might not have been paying attention to me.  Or because of being a visual communicator, I may not have been able to get my sincerity across without someone being able to see it with their own ears, that I was serious.

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But texting and social media have taken my communication issues to a whole new level of insecurity.  We now have an entire generation of people, who do not have social skills to hold a simple face to face conversation with someone.  Sure, they can care on a text or private message conversation, but in person, not very likely.

The problem with communication today, is that the typed word is just that, plan as the screen you read it on (it used to be as plain as the ink on the paper).  At least with a telephone, you could tell if someone was happy, sad, angry, confused… oh wait, yes, on the phone at least, you had the opportunity to straighten out a misunderstanding.

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But in these days of political correctness, misunderstandings can be carried to an entirely new level.  Both friendships and families have been torn apart by the lack of emotions understood by the simple typed messages.  And if there is any confusion, it is too late to do anything about it.  On the phone, you could immediately take back what you said, but by the time you start texting, “OMG, I did not mean it that way,” the recipient of the original text has already gone from 0 to 60mph with a response, and the discussion escalates in intensity.  Feelings get hurt.  Worse things are exchanged.  Relationships often end up ended.  I have experienced this several times in my life.

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To make matters worse, conversations held on social media such as Facebook and Twitter, have what are called “trolls”.  These are individuals who have nothing better to do, than to initiate situations of dissent, or people who are just plain miserable.  They look to cause trouble, and many are very good at it.  Hopefully, lists and pages that are infected with these trolls have good moderators who can weed these mean spirited people out before any real harm is done, to what otherwise might actually be a good source of information.

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I miss the days of face to face conversations.  I do think we have become to desensitized with the internet communications.  And I am certain that I have had my share of misunderstandings with things I have written or misunderstood.  I have a lot of friends who know me well enough, back before the internet, who are very quick to let me know if I am off my rocker with a comment, something that does not sound like it could have been written by me.  I call them my voices of reason.

I am far from politically correct.  I do not use racial slurs, accept all ethnicities, beliefs, and religions, and will never disrespect a woman.  But I also understand that there are people who were raised and taught to be bigoted.  I generally ignore those people.  And I do not normally get upset hearing someone refer to Asians referred to as “oriental” in spite of me having two daughters of Chinese descent.  I know that “oriental” is a style of rug, and I will not waste time trying to undo what people have been taught.

This is the problem that social media and the internet does not address, how to emote feelings with the typed words.  Sorry, emoticons and “feeling like…” at the end of a post do not count.  The internet has been a great source to communicate information, such as health stories, feel good stories, helping to find missing children, and especially news issues that we seem to have lost faith in actual news agencies to report without a political bias.

It would just be nice to have a normal conversation about something that mattered.  And if someone was upset about it, before the first “OMG are U friggin’ kidding me” is sounded, the issue could be clarified before things are said that go too far.

One Of The Greatest Summer Jobs


Two things have sparked me to write this post today.  One, was a recent post on my Facebook wall, and the other, well, it is the end of the school year for many, and that means for graduating seniors, filling their final Summer as a high school student before most likely heading off to college.

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Amusement parks are a great employer for young adults to earn money during the summer.  They offer a variety of jobs from environmental (cleaning up patron’s litter), food and game concessions, and of course operating rides.

I spent two Summers working at Dorney Park (and I am intentionally referring to it that way – I will explain later on in this post).  My first was at the end of my sophomore year, being only 15 years of age, I worked the game concession stands.  Because of my age, my hours were restricted, and the pay, well, that was not great either as the park was not required to pay the minimum wage (which at the time I believe was $3.35 an hour).  But there were perks, discounted food, and of course, I was able to ride the rides following my shifts for free.

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My senior year of high school would be the most fun working at Dorney Park.  I was a ride operator for nearly every ride in the park.  That also was paid less than the minimum wage, $2.35 an hour, and the hours were horrendous.  On weekends you could end up working a 12 hour shift.  But then again, the perks of being a “cool” ride operator, made it all worth it.  I made so many friends that year.  And like I said, I got to operate nearly every ride.  My favorites were the Sea Dragon and Thunder Creek Mountain.

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I do not do amusement parks much anymore these days, but my children definitely enjoy them.  My oldest is a seasoned roller coaster enthusiast, and my youngest is not far behind, hampered mostly by height restrictions until she is tall enough.

My children will never really get to experience the memories of a “family” amusement park like Dorney Park once used to be.  Once a free admission park, you only paid for tickets to ride the rides.  In fact, you used to be able to drive through the middle of the park for no reason, other than to just tease the kids on your way somewhere or running an errand.  They enjoy the mega amusement parks, but for those of us, who grew up with the simpler amusement rides, I can think of only one park anymore that may still hold that feeling yet, Knoebel’s Grove in Pennsylvania.  Still a free park I believe, Knoebel’s builds itself with “retired” amusement rides, and yes, they have some quality roller coasters.

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Back in the day, Dorney Park was not only known for it’s “free admission”, but for its stock car races that my father used to take me to as a young boy, and also free fireworks located on the old parking lot hill next to the wooden roller coaster (hmmm… fireworks near a wooden structure probably wasn’t the greatest idea, but they avoided any problems until…).

But in the Fall of 1983, my opinion of amusement parks would change forever.  Upon arriving at the park, to pick up my end of season “bonus check”, along with many of my friends and co-workers, we stood in shock watching not only what was our employment, but for most of us, our childhood memories, go up in flames.

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The Sea Dragon, actually the first ride that I ever operated that year, still stands to this day.  However, the majority of the park, including the origin of the fire (an unattended grill being cleaned next to a wooden structure – the carousel), was decimated.  Another fire would also destroy another memory, a wooden building called Castle Gardens, a dance/roller skating hall, in the early morning hours, again, also unattended.  But my childhood memories, except for the pictures, are all gone from Dorney Park.

What would rise from the ashes is a monster of a park, no, two parks actually.  And I will not begrudge patrons who truly enjoy Dorney Park and Wildwater Kingdom.  I have actually been to both with my daughters in the past, and they love the park.  But they will truly never be able to have the appreciation, or the memories of what once stood there decades ago.

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