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Alternative Possibilities


I am not one to be overly superstitious.  I may have a few traditions when it comes to sporting events like not shaving during the hockey playoffs, or not wearing team jerseys on the days of games.  You might say I am fairly closed-minded when it comes to superstitions.  To believe in more serious superstitions, I would have to have a bit more of an open mind.  I do believe things happen for a reason.  But something happened that made me change my mind.

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Almost two years ago, my Golden Retriever Pollo developed a very bad injury, one that I did not think he would recover from eventually.  In fact, the realization was that I might have to consider putting him down.  But then I heard among co-workers, that someone in our building was practicing an alternative therapy for animals called “pet Reiki.”  Now I had heard the term “Reiki” before, and in almost every conversation I heard, everyone enjoyed the way they felt afterwards.  Originally I was quite indifferent to what I would have just considered simple relaxation, and who does not enjoy that.  But people actually were mentioning that many of their debilitating pains had improved, allowing them more enjoyment in their lives.

I felt that I had nothing to lose.  Pollo was not getting better, and it was getting more difficult to take care of him.  So I invited Jenny (pictured above) to come over and perform “dog Reiki” on Pollo.  Normally Pollo is very excitable, even at his age, but he just laid there as she knelt beside him, put her hands on his back hips which were the cause of his discomfort.  Within a minute, he fell asleep.  I was astounded.  The session went on for twenty minutes and when she finished, Pollo lifted his head up as if in protest, and I offered Jenny for another twenty minutes.

The next day, Pollo was actually improving as it took less assistance for him to be able to stand and support his own weight.  By the second day, he was actually trotting around the back yard.  Something had happened to him, I just could not believe that it was simply healing hands “drawing out” the pain as Jenny had done.  But I could not argue with what I had seen.

So a year later, when Pollo’s issue would relapse, even more serious, I felt I had to give him one more try with Reiki.  And again, it worked.  I could no longer just dismiss this type of therapy as “hoodoo voodoo.”  It worked.  I do not know how, but an animal has no concept of what placebo means so it is not as if a human faked injury or recovery.  He was actually better where vet medicine failed to help him.

I bring this up for a reason.  I like to think that I have an opened mind.  I definitely do not judge people for their beliefs, especially when it comes to superstitions.  But having Jenny help Pollo like she did, I have learned that sometimes you have to go beyond the conventional, and what might not make sense, does not have to.  It just is.

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I am not saying I believe in hanging garlic on my door to keep away vampires… not yet at least.  But perhaps there might just be something to the following superstitions:

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The Pennsylvania Dutch hang horse shoes on their doors to keep bad luck out of the home.

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And of course, the Irish have the four-leaf clover.  Probably the most popular symbol of good luck next to the “lucky rabbit’s foot” which is not really that lucky if you are the rabbit.

But the Italians take superstition to a whole different level, called “il maloccho”, the “evil eye.”  “Mal” meaning “evil” and “occhio” referring to optical.  This is actually a curse that is placed on someone to wish them ill or harm.

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It is said that by placing water in a bowl, and three drops of olive oil, the reaction of the oil to the water determines if you have “il maloccio”.  If the oil stays separate, all is good.  But if the oil droplets join together, this forms what is called the “evil eye” and yep, you have the curse.  There are remedies for this:

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Hanging a scissors (some say with a red ribbon)

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A simple charm very similar in resemblance to a chili pepper, anywhere on your possession, along with salt, or simply spoken Italian prayers are said to lift the curse.

Some things have been happening as of late which have made no sense to me and not all good.  Perhaps it might be time to consider some of these possibilities.  It was Jenny that opened my mind to the possibilities of non-conventional means and it worked then.

World Cancer Day 2015


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After 24, years, and 11 months, my website is on its day-to-day countdown to a very important day for me.  But today is a big day on its own.  Today is World Cancer Day.

Please, today, take a moment to think about someone you know, battling this awful disease.  Call them up on the telephone and just say “hi” and let them know that you are thinking about them.  If you are friends with someone on FB or some other social media site, send them a message or inspirational photo to give them a boost that might just be what is needed at that moment.

If you have lost someone to cancer, spend a silent moment, thought, or prayer for the one that you mourn.

Today is also a good day to start thinking about what you might be able to make a difference in the world of cancer.  The Relay For Life, Light The Night, Susan Komen breast cancer walk, and all of the other fundraisers are just some examples of how you can make a difference.

I am approaching my 25th anniversary of the completion of my treatment for Hodgkin’s Lymphoma.  There are so many out there still fighting, and I have lost too many.  But when I think about cancer, it is not just Hodgkin’s that has affected my life, but all cancers.

I cannot possibly name everyone that I am thinking about on this day.  But there is one person that I want to recognize.  And it is because of her attitude and belief that not only got her through her journey with cancer, but it is her fighting spirit that is going to get her through yet another major life challenge, recovering from a horrific car accident.  She has some major hurdles to overcome, but Kristi, if anyone can get through this, I know that you can.  You have such a strong family, strong faith, and strong spirit.  On this day Kristi, I am taking everything that I know about you, your battles with cancer and survival, and sending as many thought and prayers for nothing less than a 100% recovery.

A Bigger Disappointment


If you have been following recent posts by me, you know who I was routing for in this year’s Super Bowl.  And by now, the results are in, the Seattle Seahawks lost the game to the New England Patriots.  What you may not know, is that I am pretty much okay with the end result.  Sure it is nice to have your favorite team play for a championship, and yes, even nicer if your team wins.  But let us be real, how boring would the NFL be if it were to send the same teams to the big game year after year after year.  There are way more other teams that have not won the big game.  But for my favorite team, they did have their year last year, so I will not be greedy.

But admittedly, I did have hopes that the game would turn out in Seattle’s favor.  But some very odd plays at the very end of the game, combined with what nearly all watching the game (routing for either team) felt was the most unusual call to make on a play that would definitely decide the result, pale in comparison to a comment that I overheard today.

I am not one to sit and listen to talk radio as normally comments made by the hosts are almost always going to be one sided, directed by the credos of either major political party.  So because of conversations like that, when I have a choice, I listen only to music.  But today, unfortunately I was in a situation that left me trapped for about five minutes listening to the most vile, bigoted, and hateful conversation being broadcast over someone’s radio.

It is a shame that in the 21st century that I am even going to say that I was witness to the filth that came out from one of the biggest bigots this country knows.  And only because I believe in freedom of speech, I have to accept his rights to spew his hateful garbage.

I am referring to Rush Limbaugh.  In my life, I am only vaguely familiar with who he is, as my stepfather unfortunately liked to listen to him while occasionally driving me to school.  One of the things I disagreed with my stepfather was his “influences” of which Limbaugh and a cartoonish buffoon by the name of Morton Downey, Jr. (just think a political version of Jerry Springer).

It seems not much has changed for Limbaugh since then.  I know that he has had some image issues over the years, and honestly he has brought them on himself.  Reading news clips that include him, in my opinion, I would consider him a bigot, a pig, a real jackass.  Today, I confirmed it.

On this person’s radio, Limbaugh was talking about his propaganda topics of the day, and then turned his ire towards of all things, the Seattle Seahawks.  Normally the putz is usually after the President of the United States, women’s rights, or racism.  What could this jerk obviously have to say about my favorite football team other than perhaps that he lost in his office pool.

I am going to paraphrase the next part, because I did not have a pen to notate his exact words, so this is all from memory.  Limbaugh claimed that the Seahawks lost the Super Bowl because of racism.  And here was his proof.  The decision to pass the football in an obvious run situation by the best running back in football currently, was because the quarterback, Russell Wilson, is a lighter skin color of black, than the player who had the best chance to win the game, who was a darker tone of black skin color.  Then also made reference to the character of the lighter colored player versus the darker skinned player.

Seriously, I cannot believe that anyone listens to this ass, but sadly I can confirm at least two people were indeed listening to his trash.  Worse, these individuals most likely believe what he was saying.

I do not agree with the decision made by the Seahawks to pass on that particular down.  But as I sit on this side of the television screen, it is not up to me.  But I also know, during that final minute, there were at least two other scenarios that could have made the game come out, still in the Seahawks favor.  But at no time, EVER you bigoted jerk, did race ever have anything to do with the result of the game.  Your comments show your true color, and in spite of the right of freedom of speech, your comments show there is still so much to improve when it comes to race relations and your comments not only show your ignorance, but also turn the clocks back every time you open your mouth.

 

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