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Helping A Leopard Change Its Spots


I wrote a short while ago, about being a very picky eater.  At the time, the story was nothing more than just a bad habit that I had.  This is in spite of knowing so many people who have had to make lifestyle changes, or watching year after year of The Biggest Loser and Celebrity Fit Club.  Now, it is my time.  I do not have a choice.

I learned my bad dietary habit when I was young, like three years old young.  Prior to my parents divorce, I had been told that I would anything placed on my table.  But following that event, I then turned my nose up at just about everything.  I do remember from my earliest days, being strictly a meat and potatoes kind of kid.  It is not that I was into junk food either.  I just refused to eat vegetables.

In my teen years, my behavior only solidified,  but it was reinforced by situation.  Unfortunately, I found myself often fending for myself, and whatever my part-time after school job could afford, which basically was fast food.  And that behavior followed me into adulthood.  As I maintained a busy, on-the-road schedule, there was no time to sit down and eat, even think about what I was eating.

A battle with cancer, emergency life-saving open heart surgery, kidney stone, high cholesterol and blood pressure, by themselves would be reason enough to change my dietary direction.  But as I face yet more issues from late term side effects, these issues have a direct impact on the food I will eat for the rest of my life.  I have no choice at this point.

For the last several years, I have been experiencing a “swallowing” issue that results in a choking sensation when swallowing food.  Two years ago, it got to the point once it began to be too difficult to swallow even soft foods.  Desperate to get calories into me, instead of opting for nutritional drinks such as Boost or Ensure, I went for probably the worst caloric shot, Coke and melted Snicker Bars.  For at least two months, this is how I maintained my weight until the swallowing got worse and I adjusted to Cokes and milkshakes.  Then it happened, I could not even get them down without the choking sensation, even water was difficult.

An endoscope revealed some concerns, but nothing that was blatantly obvious.  It was recommended that I quit drinking soda, eat better, the works.  I am not sure what else was done while I was scoped, but my swallowing had been restored.  Late last year, it began to resurface.  More probing would reveal that I have now developed Barrett’s Esophagus and something called eosinophilis esophagitis.  In spite of being on PPI omeprazole, the acid content of my stomach was described by my doctors as “angry”.

So there are concerns with such a high acid content in the stomach, and the increased risks associated with having had radiation therapy, the biggest concern, esophageal cancer.  Barrett’s Esophagus can lead to esophageal cancer.  So now, everything is in my corner to have the best opportunity to at least attempt to prevent anything worse.  The doctors are hoping that the major change to my diet will correct and right things.

It may sound odd for a 40-ish year old man, to need to be told not only what to eat, but how.  but that is exactly what I will need.  I have to eliminate 95% of my diet, and substitute it with 100% of what I do not like to eat.  I cannot allow my weight to crash, or let malnourishment occur.  If I let this happen, as has happened on other occasions when I have pushed my body too far and too hard, I will crash.  In the past, I was able to do the quick boost of calories.  I appreciate the outpouring of suggestions to make the “horrible” food taste good to me.

Fortunately, my daughters have not picked up this habit.  They are both good eaters, and do what they can to get me to eat right, even resorting to the old “double dog dare”.  But for now, here is the current short list of things that will pass my tonsils (there is much more available, I just won’t eat it):

Bananas

Apples

Oranges

Watermelon

Pumpkin

Potatoes

Onion

Carrots

Sweet Potatoes

Lettuce

1-2% Milk

Egg Yolks

Chicken

Turkey

Tuna

Sea Salt

Cinnamon

Birth Of A New Campaign


One thing I take pride in, is that when I make a commitment to something, 99.9% of the time finish what I set out to do.  It does not matter what else I am going through, especially with my health, I do my best to never let that interfere.  Admittedly, it has to be something serious to lay me up in the hospital (like my heart surgery), otherwise you can count on me being there.

So, on my way home from the hospital yesterday, fellow candidates and the rest of my school board campaign members were meeting to discuss future events and decisions, as well as prepare for the first leg of Pennsylvania, filing petitions.

Three out of the four of us ran for school board locally in 2011.  We fell short by narrow margins (less than 200 votes out of 70,000 available votes which shows those who think their vote does not matter, guess again.  199 people decide to come out and make a difference I would be sitting on the school board by now.

I got to our meeting a little later as I knew would happen.  The first order of business is filing petitions.  In order to get on our state’s primary ballot in May, I need to get ten signatures from voters in my political party.  But since school board is non partisan, there is the ability to cross file in the other major party.  So my task is then to have someone from the other party take my petition around for ten signatures from that party.

There have been others in the past who have run against our current board members, but because of this cross filing process, and with enough candidates on both sides,  Without a full slate of candidates, any uncontested slot following the primary was an easy step through the primaries.  In May of 2011, the four other candidates with myself forced a general election with five candidates versus five candidates, incumbants versus challengers.

I will get into issues later, and there are plenty of them.  But one thing I will make perfectly clear.  My purpose for running for school board, including the prior election, is to protect my childrens’ education.  By protecting their education, others will hopefully also benefit.

So my goal beginning next Tuesday, is to have a minimum fifteen signatures from each party.  The reason is simple.  Even with a school board election, candidates are known to challenge the validity of signatures.  The reasons could be as simple as using a mailing address instead of physical address.  Accidently writing the wrong date with the signature is enough to get that signature as well as other signatures, nullified.  Using “ditto” marks as in living in the same municipality will scratch out the signature.

Typically this will happen in the bigger elections that require many more signatures.  An election that requires a thousand signatures or even two hundred fifty you would think would be convincing enough.  But with the exact number of signatures, having even one nullified, can end your campaign.

Our efforts in 2011 caught the incumbants’ attention.  It was historical to have two incumbants tossed from their seats on the school board.  We were all relative unknowns except for two who had run in a prior election and lost.  We whole heartedly believed that because we concentrated our efforts with each other, that strength carried through the general election.

This year, we hope to do the same thing.

The rest of our meeting, we reminisced on what we did in 2011, and what we will need to do in 2013.  There is no doubt that people have probably grown weary of elections after the huge effort of both candidates this past presidential election.  Contrary to scale, school board elections in Pennsylvania have just as important impact on households.

In the coming months, there will be campaign appearances, fundraisers, and just having people come up to us because they recognize us.  I consider this a priveledge even just to run for the school board.  There are many who could not wait for two years to pass, when the other half of the board would be up for re-election, and then find out if there would competition again.  And there will be.

That is what makes this process great.  That is what makes this country great.  Opportunity and service.

My Fight For Education


A few years ago, I made one of the most illogical decisions in my life, to run for a public office.  I had no political experience, a fairly average voting record, and the only political interest I may have had, was occasionally flipping through the channels on the television and occasionally catching bits and pieces of a biased “news” channel.  But something changed in 2009.

A new phase in my parental status was expected to begin following the Labor Day holiday.  But a huge cloud was hanging overhead.  It was a looming teacher labor crisis, common in school districts all over the country.  The climate was mirroring a similar contract negotation within our school district, which resulted in a strike then.  All that mattered to Wendy and I though was that it was Madison’s first year in school, and we had no other daycare options available if the teachers would go on strike.

And then it happened.  The announcement was made that the teachers would go on strike.  A court order mandated that the strike had not been given proper notice and the teachers return to the classrooms.  But another walk out would occur incurring the wrath of many in the district, including myself.  All I knew was that teachers make enough and only work part of the year.  Now before I hear from anyone what a jerk I was, I know it.  Like I said, this was uncharted territory for me and I was pissed off not having a firm arrangement for Madison’s care.

The media concentration on the strike was typical.  The district presenting their opinions that the teachers were being unreasonable.  The union responded that they were frustrated by the lack of understanding and consideration by the district.  Back and forth, back and forth.  I cannot say what exactly it was that caused this emotion in me, but the school board did something I considered despicable, legal, but despicable.  The board authorized the publication of every teacher and guidance counselor’s salaries in a full page color advertisement in several local newspapers.  I was infuriated.  And just like that, my support flipped completely to the side of the teachers.

This bully tactic did exactly what it was meant to do, raise the ire of the taxpayers and parents.  It is common sense that there will be a difference in salaries for teachers with one year of service and those with thirty years.  I had no idea what a teacher’s salary was, and though a matter of public record, was no business of mine.  My only concern with a teacher was educating my children.  At that moment, I had no idea what direction I would go in, but I was going to support the efforts of teachers, learn what the teachers did and the commitments nearly all make in molding our community’s future.

I followed the negotiations very carefully, and then an opportunity knocked.  Following a recent school board election, a re-elected board member decided to resign (conveniently after defeating an opposing political party opponent).  A replacement would be chosen by the board after soliciting replacement candidates.  I made the decision to put my name in.  Miraculously, a replacment had been chosen.  None of the other applicants had been contacted about the interest or resumes, but the replacement also happened to be from the same political party as the resignee and dropped out of the race prior to the primary so as not to compete with an incumbant.  Amazing what happens even when it comes to local politics.

Denied.

That following January, another opportunity came.  An information meeting was held to teach how to run for a public office, in particular, school board.  It was attended by people representing both political parties and third parties.  A couple of weeks later, I made the decision to officially run for school board.  It was an exciting experience for me.  Four others made the decision to run with me as a full slate of candidates bent on removing the bullying incumbants and restore respect and dignity within our school district.

Two of our candidates had broken the glass ceiling in being elected.  The other three of us, including me fell short of votes by less than 200.  Our efforts fell short just because enough people did not feel their votes would count.  We ran a clean campaign, and for three of us, it was our first campaign.  We had nothing to be ashamed of.  It was less than a week later, the three of us made the decision to continue the fight.  So I will run again for school board in 2013.  A lot of people question the need to do this, especially with the many health issues I have to deal with, but it is simple.

I feel right now, my most important role of being a parent, is to make sure my daughters get the best education possible.  For my wife and I, we believe in public education.  We both graduated through the public school system.  We were both successful because of our education.  A free public education is a right of our children just as it was for myself and others, and the generations before.  It is our obligation for the strength of our community (and country) to provide a strong and quality education.

There are plenty of disagreements from teacher salaries to school choice.  I no longer just look at the actual dollar figure of the teacher’s salary.  I do believe in school choice.  We should be free, and in my school district, we are free to choose from private schools, Catholic schools, even other elementary schools within the district.  And in districts where education is suffering from quality and need, charter schools originally seemed to address those concerns.  But charter schools would come at an additional expense to the district, and trickle down to my home in the form of higher taxes.  But even more hurtful, limited by state mandate, expenses of adding a charter school could not be covered completely by an equal tax increase, which result in only one thing, cuts.  Approval of a charter school in our district will not only raise our taxes, but to make up the rest of the deficit of next year’s budget, our district will have to look at cutting curriculum, programs, and staff.  This will effect my daughters’ education in a dire way.  They are too young right now to know what their future will be, but they should be offered the opportunities that I had, that everyone had to be able to recognize their potential.  And that means offering everything that is possible.  If we as a taxpayer are willing to pay a charter school to teach the programs our district is willing to cut, why cannot we keep them in the first place?  If we as taxpayers are willing to provide a smaller class size (the main argument made to support a charter school), why is our district so unwilling to make that provision within our school system?

There are plenty of other issues.  These are difficult times for education as a whole.  Budgets are strained.  Expenses rise.  But respect, quality, and responsibiltiy cannot suffer for the ill decisions made in the past.

School board director is a volunteer position.  It is a lot of hassle, for no pay, a lot of criticism, but knowing that you are helping to mold the minds of the next inventor, the next discoverer of a cure for cancer, the next president.  I have made a commitment, and have volunteered the last three years attending most of the school board and sub committee meetings to make myself familiar with the goings on of our school district.  It is a monumental task and commitment.  But for my daughters, it is worth it.  And for my commitment, I believe that everyone else’s children will benefit as well.

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