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A Driving Test Flashback


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I am sitting here watching “Alexander And The Horrible, Terrible, Very Bad Day” (not really the inspirational movie I should be watching, but since it is a comedy, and I really needed the laugh and actually see someone having it worse than me to appreciate what I am dealing with and nothing more).

Anyway, there is a part of the movie, where the teenage boy is going for his driving license test.  And of course, adjusted for 21st century issues, such as having a cell phone in the car, it was the very beginning of the actual driving test for the teen that caused me to remember an incident that I witnessed decades ago while going for my driver’s license.

I believe it is a law everywhere, that a driver in training must always be accompanied by a licensed driver.  And evidently it depended on the instructor supervising the exam how literal this requirement would be.  But in front of me, was a fellow teenager, whose mother had gotten out of the vehicle to allow the instructor to get into the car at the entrance to the driving test course.  Seemed like the polite thing to do.

Up ahead from the vehicle, approximately 50 feet, was the instructor, seemingly pleasant, who with a simple gesture, a wave of her hand for the inexperienced driver (inexperienced in the art of being literal as well), motioned for the teenager to pull the car forward for the instructor to get into the vehicle.

Yep.  The instructor failed the teenager for driving without a licensed driver.  Perhaps the instructor was having a really horrible, terrible, very bad day herself, or maybe just was a really mean person.  But as my mother had already gotten out of my vehicle, just as the mother in front of us, I  could not motion quickly enough for my mother to get back into my car.

Spoiler alert, of course, just as the movie portrayed, the teen driver suffered all kinds of issues during his exam.  But for those have seen the movie, here are some important tips if you will be having a teenage driver soon.

1.  NO DRIVING THE CAR WITHOUT A LICENSED DRIVER – even as a courtesy to the instructor

2.  Do not use the cell phone during the exam, actually ever should be the rule

3.  Of course, hands at 10 and 2 o’clock

I am sure there are more, but with my daughters four years or more away from driving, I will worry about that later.

What I Think About Common Crap… I Mean Common Core


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Several years ago, while campaigning for my local school board as  director, I was introduced to the term, “common core”.  My understanding it was a concept that would challenge children in their education by no longer educating children by simply “memorizing” subjects and content, but instead, learning to apply what they have to learn to every day life.  And I am going to preface my next comment by stating that my opinion has absolutely nothing to do with politics and who created “common core” or “no child left behind” or whatever other gimmick some corporation wants to get rich off the backs of our children.  But…

COMMON CORE SUCKS!!!

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Now that I got that off my chest.  Here is what prompted this rant.  My daughter had asked for help with her math homework.  So far, it has not been too difficult a task to do.  But this year, math has become quite a challenge.

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This was a multiplication formula that was used over the summer when my daughters visited me.  Now if you are like me, you see extra work in both of those equations.  The goal of Common Core is to stop “memorizing” the work, and instead, “think” about each equation and how you get to it.  Now, I had a math teacher in 7th grade who used to time us to see if we could use a calculator to figure an equation quicker than he could solve it on the blackboard (today known as a “smart board”).  And guess what, his “memorized” math skills were always quicker than those of us even with the quickest of fingers.  And he was always accurate.  And honestly, if you are reading this post, you learned math the same way, using memorization of the multiplication table.  And the same goes for the other functions of math:  addition, subtraction, and division.  Simply put:

47                                          37

x6                                        x23

= 282                                111

74

= 851

 

And that is all there should be to simple math.  Why did someone have to mess with this?

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But later on in the school year, Common Core just got a whole lot more frustrating.  I will be the first to admit that I did not really care for doing fractions, but at least I could learn them, and I did them.  But with Common Core now, this led to a nightmare trying to teach my daughter simple fractions and common denominators.

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My daughter’s homework was addition, not subtraction, but was still just as absurd.  But the formulization was just as absurd.  What I wanted to do was to teach her as I had learned, and what has been used for decades.

3/4 divided by 3/8 = the common denominator being 8, makes the first fraction 6/8 divided by 3/8 = 2.  But that would be too easy.  Instead Common Core pushed to write a thesis for every math problem.  No memorizing.

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 Now I know, math is not the only target of Common Core.  Scores for science have been dropping each year in my old school district because with all the focus on standardized tests, Math and Reading have become the priority.  At one point, our education was a leader in the world when it came to science.  And now there is a push to erase our nation’s history, because it makes us look “bad.”

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Slavery.  We had it.  The Great Depression (the first one).  We had it.  World Wars 1 & 2, Vietnam, the Gulf Wars, etc.  We had them and more.  But now the push is on to teach our children how great a country we are, and we can change our history simply by erasing it.  Now I do not know about you, but I think our country did great things when it did abolish slavery.  Our country did great things when it gave women equal rights and so on.  We do not need to eliminate our history.  We still need to teach it, we just need to teach more of it, because more has happened since I was in school.

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Common Core wants our children to become thinkers.  Most of us reading this have no issue with being considered thinkers.  And the difference is this.  Twenty years ago, we were not consumed by Youtube, television, year round athletics and all of the other extra curricular activities.  We took time to get our homework done first, and if our grades were not good enough, we did not participate.  Now, homework gets done when there is time.  And guess what, Common Core is not helping grades go higher, not helping to learn to test, and are definitely not creating thinkers.  What it has done is make some corporations very wealthy creating new curriculum, and this is the way it will be until someone else wants to get rich off the minds of our students and brings in a new method of learning.  We are trying to fix what was never broken, and not fixing what is.

 

A Failure To Believe


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“Actually, we have misdefined hypocrisy.  Hypocrisy is not the failure to practice what you preach, but the failure to believe it.”   Peter Kreeft

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I may not have realized it yesterday, as I wrote yesterday’s post just how meaningful it would have been to me today, therapeutically.  Yes, I knew today was going to be one of those days that my stress level was going to be much higher than normal.  And so I took extra time last evening before going to sleep, or trying to sleep anyway, to relax.  I fell asleep with music plugged into my earbuds and I did double the amount of nightly breathing exercises I do.

I must have done something wrong.  Because instead of waking up refreshed, I felt like I had not slept in days.  Sure, my eyes were shut, and I do not recall being aware of anything throughout the night, but clearly I did not get into that deep and restful sleep that I was hoping to get to have.

The Carpenters sang “Rainy Days And Mondays Always Get Me Down” and the Boomtown Rats sang “I Don’t Like Mondays.”  I think we can all agree that if we had the choice, if we had to a have just one weekday, we would make it Friday.  But the fact is, Monday was here and I was ready for it.

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As I said yesterday, a little bit of stress can be good for you.  It can actually help you focus.  But if you are dealing with much more than that, the results can be… well… waking up like I did.  Over the last year, I am dealing with several major stressors:  unemployment, death of a loved one, health issues, divorce, financial, and well… I really miss my children.  So, as I turned in last night, feeling that I was completely focused on just one of my stressors this morning, I woke up like a mento in a bottle of Diet Coke.

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I prepared for my morning’s activity last night, and perhaps that was my problem in the first place.  Though I had laid everything out, that I needed to take care of, perhaps I may have been worried subconsciously what I might have missed.  Do you remember back in school, what it was like to over-cram studying for a test, thinking you were going to ace the test, only to fail miserably, or at best score and average grade.  I might have done that to myself without even realizing it.

In any case, I did make it through the morning’s activity, and exactly as I had planned.  I did not get the immediate result I had been hoping for, though once everything was explained to me in detail by the other party involved, all I could do is shrug my shoulders and prepare for the next step.  And that is how I reacted.  And as I moved that paperwork aside, there it was, the rest of my stressors I still have to deal with.

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But instead of hitting a panic button, it was what I shared with all of you yesterday, that helped me prepare for the aftermath of what laid ahead for me the rest of my day.  So in a way, I did practice what I preached in the overall scheme of things, and I am very focused on what else I need to accomplish today, and can do it with a calm and collected demeanor.  Things could have gone very badly this morning had I not been as prepared as I had been emotionally.

Now on to my next task.

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